You spend soo much time wondering whether other people  in the faith do what you do. But, you seem to be hoping that they don't. Well, they don't and you know this or else you wouldn't think about that person. But, most importantly, you seem to have forgotten about the most important functions in your religious faith and this is God's forgiveness, Sincerity and Self-forgiveness. This is because he told you.  You do have a conscience evidently. So, follow and stop arguing.