Do you know of a culture that says it's OK to kill a child whose cheek you cut and who does not know why? Don't kill him. Just tell him to fix his cheek. All that time and money you spent feeding, raising and schooling him or her is a blessing. He or she is a live birth and should not be killed for some one's "anti-christ" game of social hegemony or is that you have a fear of, some how, being alone; that he or she will leave and have a family of their own. He will fix his cheek. Stop killing or venting on him as if you are showing loyalty to something. He loved you enough to do his piano recital preparation. Putting cash in a cash box with a condom and someone's old socks to make them feel like you did in high school is not the humane answer. Help someone as you wished to be helped; for the love of God.