What do you want in a relationship then? You want someone to share your emotional burden. While they share your emotional burden, whatever the cause or source, you must also share theirs. There is someone who, historically, offered a light burden in exchange for carrying any cares or burden you may have if you just throw it on him when the burden comes to the top of your heart again. What do you want in a relationship then; after all? This is a discussion of historical understanding. Your girlfriend knows. You are her de facto husband so give her pearls and don't look at the street lamps when that thinly clad fan of some popstar passes by while you shop for school shoes. Also, don't look down. The popstar fan is not saying with her gaze that she thinks you are attractive. She just wants anybody to look and give her attention. She was ignored at the breakfast table and really just wants a conversation. Once she realises this, she will be thankful for the guy next door that she was kissing last night and they will get married after they graduate after college. Just tell her you forgot to look at something in the store you just walked passed and turn around until that wanton girl passes by. In the alternative, look to the stores directly to your left or right and point your finger. There is nothing wrong with stepping into a dress shop to ask her if she likes something in the window. She is your de facto wife and expects you to be faithful and you expect the same. It's time to put away childish things and be home by 11:00 pm on Friday night so you can wake up early enough to watch Sponge Bob Triangle pants.