So the barren woman is not to be a strange woman. She is invited to be the Lord's wife and consort with a special role for closeness and service. He can certainly provide a male, earthly companion along with the Lord's purpose. There are so many humans out there who are of the opposite gender. There must be one in your church or town that is the prepared answer for companionship. But, you have to quit your habit that is hindering the answer. You might use too much yogurt or liquid soap in the kitchen maybe when you rub the utensils( colanders and cups etc) with your hands too frequently. It's not good for your health. You could adopt. While every true Messianic Jew(male or female) is the bride of Christ, she has a special invitation to be a servant of the Lord and to be close. She may volunteer to show up Early and ensure all he pews have hymnals. She may commit to volunteer with a reputable service organisation such as the United Way. Her prayers are heard but they may not be answered any faster. Any male or female preacher, regardless of race could tell you this. It's in Psalms 27:10. Sometimes the time in waiting is the time in preparation of the answer. Ultimately, you are trusting while waiting and you have accepted your special role as the Lord's wife( Isaiah 54).