The woman who wants to turn a genuine husband and friend into her emotional rag doll....simply because she will not forgive the person(father, uncle, grandfather, ex-husband) who provided the input for her self-centered emotions. It is said quite often that forgiveness is for you. It is not for the other person. After thirty years of resentment that has laid the groundwork for your unstable, self-centered emotions that has led to several relationship break ups, who dares to argue with you? Your emotions tell you that you are right and its only because your reason was hi-jacked.

The woman who wants to turn a genuine husband and friend into her emotional rag doll....simply because she will not forgive the person(father, uncle, grandfather, ex-husband) who provided the input for her self-centered emotions. It is said quite often that forgiveness is for you. It is not for the other person. After thirty years of resentment that has laid the groundwork for your unstable, self-centered emotions that has led to several relationship break ups, who dares to argue with you? The anger you carry is a fortress and no reason can get in while you do take time to admit that your wrong in moments of celebration. Your emotions tell you that you are right and its only because your reason was hi-jacked. It may take a deliberate habit of reasonable forgiveness for the usual and reasonable disappointments( that same disappointments others suffer with you in the normal happenstance of life) to get out of the hold that resentment and anger has on your perceptions of situations; forgiveness(daily and conscious forgiveness) must begin with the key source of your anger in the past and then forgive those around you in your daily life. Otherwise, you are only having a relationship with your own emotions. Everyone else is just an inanimate object really and you have already decided how it will end. It ends with you having a tantrum before someone can say they were happy to arrive for dinner and...you are shouting for a missed call. Who are you? Look at your own "missed call" folder. Did anyone shout at you when you did not answer? He who is without "missed calls", let him cast the first stone and break up legitimately. Only God himself never misses a call.