Our emotions are finite. Our lives are finite. Why does anyone spend a lot of time and energy worrying about how his fellow cross country skier or golfer feels? He may feel just the same about himself wearing any pair of shoes since he is born again. Heaven for him is not a grab bag of numbers ornaments where if someone grabs a higher number out of the bag or a slightly shinier ornament, someone might get upset. The irony is that, in life, there is always a higher mountain to climb and someone in your church who may have already climbed that peak. You too have your chance to reach that height someday.