There is always a need for acceptance of some kind but what type of dude or dudette that you like in a relationship? What does granny say? She thinks that a fish boat captain is the ideal and one who will just know it was you who left yellow egg yoke on his vehicle. Read Matthew 5. Vehicle designers are hard- pressed to please everyone but so are you. God made you with a unique personality. The vehicle designers and companies make sufficient vehicle types and designs to please the billions of personalities in the world. The Lord has provided a sufficient number of dudes or dudettes to provide for the needs in your personality. There is such a dude or dudette in your area. But, you can't have an opportunity to ask someone out if you don't go to co-ed lawn bowling, fishing or attend your Sunday service or the University classes. She is pleasant. He is pretty cool. They wouldn't mind going out for a unique new cola to talk about that new movie, the new Ikea line or the new Weights at the gym. It's not soo simple but they will ask you out for a second date. They certainly want you to call them again for the Shanghai Ponderosa Buffet.