You had no story about relationships or any theme on which to build both your lusts and love except your sincere inclination for companionship.  By the time you finish high school and Sunday school, you are likely to build your expectation of relationships on the two most popular stories of lust and love:
1. Adam and Eve; and
2. Romeo and Juliet.


There are other examples in Shakespeare and also one must remember that Christ was a second Adam. His mother and father provide a good example of a life lived not on the belief in an impending relationship disaster as soon as you decide to share cups, but on the notion of teamwork and partnership that is patient and kind in the process.  See Ecclesiastes 4, 1st Corinthians 7 and 1st Corinthians 13. Mutual patience and kindness is key since M. Scott Peck makes clear that being human is best defined as the right and likelihood of pooping your own pants at least once in your life.  It took a while to help you believe you could walk down an isle or complete a sowing or cooking class on your own because of your fears of abandonment and failure. You took every sign of concern for good timing as some expression of doubt in commitment to the plan  to grow together.  While you leave relationships, your husband or friend(every husband should be a friend while the wife is also a friend first and foremost and know that you don't own anyone as every human is  a child of God) thanks God.  God provides as there are many tulips in the "college and career" church group or evening language class(or fish in the sea).