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Wednesday 19 June 2013

King David broke up with his first wife. Read Psalms 42 and Ecclesiastes 4.  You might as well enjoy the time. If you can laugh together and sit beside each other for two hours and not fidget or worry about how the other person feels about your cologne or chest size( male of female), then continue to enjoy the time and don't look inside each other's jogging top coats when you take turns going to the salle de bain in the hotel room with the "matrimonio"(google it) bed. You never know when a battery will uh run out. 

Some people want you to be with anyone if "anyone" asks because they think its youthful or to at least feel like it since it does not feel soo traditional.  If it was a reasonable proposition, then jealousy is or should be a redundant emotion in addition to the fear of infidelity. You can't hold two contrary positions in one mind( having cake and eating it too for too long regardless of your motive and intentions to absolutely fit in and please everyone) and remain stable or consistent.  It means you have too many audiences but only one wishes to simply send you the wrong way. Be happy and draw a line in the sand for as long as possible.   

Is there something else you needed? Do you sleep comfortably together? Is someone asking persistently as to why you are with them or suggesting that they do not like them for you? Be convinced in your own mind either way and enjoy the time. David had a second wife while Jacob seems to have gotten a 2 for 1 deal in some family politics but it seems that the father of the brides understood the capacity of that young man and in a nomadic culture with lots of room for provision and growth, it made sense.  Jacob did choose one like his father. 

Warren A. Lyon.

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