The truth is that there is no argument or war in Heaven as to the best way to take care of the children, the Heavenly throne or the earth as His footstool. There is no  patriarchal or matriarchal argument. The spirit of wisdom is depicted as a woman in the word of God.  God is not arguing with the spirit of wisdom but they will certainly reason together in the absence of fear.  It also says that two cannot walk together unless they agree. Read Ecclesiastes 4.  Can you be friends and stay together  and have children and take nice photos with your family around to support you?  Take their advice certainly.  Read Abd Ru Shin on the Sixth commandment for more (google it) and support a good friendship that might blossom into one (1) or five children or something like that. Can you?   
Now if you want something, go to the department store. But, hope that the last dress or shirt that will fit you will be there. If you want a spouse who is also a good friend, go to the library and hang around the cook book or vehicle maintenance section and hopefully the woman or man that fits will be there; or you could go to church and hope.  Who kept you alive between birth and five years old anyway?  Someone wanted to ensure that you had what you needed.  Thank God.