Teeth Whitening and teeth fixing because you love him enough

It used to be that for that special wedding ceremony day, all you needed was your vows, good tooth paste and the family that loves  you.  You probably already got married before the wedding ceremony day as the ceremony is not the wedding.  The vows in the church and the ink in the wedding registry or its filing at the city record office do not make you married.  Its the two of you knowing each other as you ought to (intercoursing or copulating) so as to enjoy Godly concupiscence and the intention being that you will know no one else like that.  You had that intention from the moment you set eyes on her; so did she but then you got her a ring to confirm your intentions in the public and then all of a sudden, she did not like your dress sense because she got another offer now that she has your ring on.  You got some new offers too for some reason with some ex girlfriends calling out of the blue but you got married five years ago in the back of her ( your betrothed's) vehicle and now it was just to set a ceremony date.  But, the ring on her hand has brought a new reality. All of a sudden, she is willing to have weddings with a few other people until the ceremony because she was told she would have to be really faithful after the wedding pictures with the dress on. You decided to stay faithful to your original intentions but she was told its ok to have as many test runs until that day but she has your ring on and she was more faithful, actually entirely faithful, up to the day you put it on her hand but the offers she was getting made it difficult for her to remember why she had said no to all these other people until now. It must have been a half descent ring and she must have felt like a Princess in it and soo treasured and valued.  Oh well. At least, your teeth are no longer perfect enough now that you gave her the ring and everything all of a sudden has to be brand new.  Well, maybe she will be the same sweet girl who said yes and was faithful to you if you take the ring back or you should let her continue to  devalue all that you shared together up to the ring moment. You kept your promise but everyone around her is telling her not to keep hers.  Its amazing that this should happen now that she has your ring on. So what do you do. You could fix the gap in your teeth but then what next? The truth is, you  never complained about her teeth or her tendency to spend too much time looking at her receding gumline due to her chocolate addiction or the fact that she kills all of her plants or the fact that she can't iron clothing or seems afraid to try to iron a shirt or the fact that her front teeth are actually veneers.  You didn't marry her for her teeth as teeth can be fixed anyway and you would not breakup over that. But, if you thought it might affect a wedding picture, you may tell her and with all love and respect in your voice.  The last thing you want to hear is that you don't really love her since you suggested she should fix her teeth for the wedding picture. Someone might think what will you do when she is fat after pregnancy and there's an extra fold of love to handle on her waist.  That's right; better not worry about the teeth then or find some pictures of couples with bad teeth on wedding day and say "...Hey...maybe we should get those teeth laser white and some veneers put on because even if we don't, you know I will truly love you and never leave you. We are already faithfully married with that intention to stay together; Matthew 19." She says, Amen! After that, if she loses an arm, you know you will stay with her because she is a good friend who loves you for your real person and not the features that are purely cosmetic and you love her the same way. Isn't that what its all about? If not, you could just find a picture and marry the picture; right?