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Monday 3 September 2012

self-addiction

Self-addiction or narcissism is a heightened sense of vanity.  Do you know anyone like this in your life who knows they are very pretty and people tell them all the time and they just lie about everything to get in to the clubs, never give to  others except total strangers and some people whose good opinion they wish to have but abandon old friends or family members or even their pets or children if they do not allow them the lease of approval they are soo afraid of loosing?  They will even change mobile phone manufacturers after a few headlines criticising the phone they use so as to be on the next hot phone bandwagon back in  the day or in the current day as in tomorrow morning when they realise android or robot phone, as they are called, are no longer approved of like "Linux" software phones or "wolfram alpha" software phones or  Jude 1 software phones.

See Ravi Zacharias below on the proclivity to have bad phones but sacrificing the desire for a bad old phone in the service to Christ.  In fact, I think Ravi said something else and I will have to watch again; two thumbs true!!  I will have to watch it again as it suffered a certain degree of digital clarity in balanced and agape-like reasoning.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4LjR6v6_4YY&feature=fvwrel
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GYcz_6oreOchttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HGolWpMIQm0


Don't forget that the spirit of agape or the Shekinah ( feminine heart of God) is depicted as a breast or the female breast of God.  It is not that God is a woman or man but we respect the duality of God's nature in that Man as Adam and Eve were both made in God's image.  Some men who were estranged from their mothers very early may find that they spend time trying to understand the backend of a Porsche in the same way they look at the bras section and bra size chart of the Sears-Roebuck catalogue more than looking at golf clubs, wedding rings, suits, all-inclusive vacations and kitchen sinks for his wife.  They should come to know their heavenly father's Shekinah glory with healing as described in Romans 1.  They should also be a friend or spouse to someone with the same thoughtfulness and respect they expect to receive in return.  If your partner says he or she is working on a project and they are almost done and only need ten to twenty minutes to call you back, also they have not had lunch and have been working since 10 am (now its 1.30 pm), let them call you back.  It does not help if you take it personally and they are happy that you called. But, if you keep them on the phone after they have asked nicely five times and they aren't sixteen years old ( the current age of your emotional patternings are that of an 8 years old), then you have made it clear that you do not love them.  This is the continual habit of your behaviour.  Find what you need because if you loved them, you would give them the time required so you could rest together as a couple would.  Then, they make it clear that it is time to cut this call short, they indicate you must be having some sort of breakdown and they ask you not to call back until you heal.  You say "F--k you."  Then you hang up. Did it matter what part of town he is in if he said he is at the Kindos copy centre and you can hear photocopiers in the background and you won't let him get off the phone until he tells you what part of town he is in?  Then he tells you he is in Surrey out of frustration to see if you know where that is. But, you should since you grew up in Reading(its a place and not just something you should do with sincerity, more determination, diligence, faith, more honesty, less confusion and patience).  The point is to know yourself. Google "know thyself".  Google that and you should see this. Read to the bottom as well( http://bible.cc/proverbs/14-8.htm) under commentaries until you see some hebrew or greek.  Don't be afraid.  What did you really want to know or are you just confirming again your trust issues and your emotional instability with wavering self-belief and a  breakdown? He asked if you would like to come and help with the WORK. Leave it at that and they will send a donation for your new ministry. Find what you need and welcome to the next stage of your preaching ministry. Your lack of appreciation for their prayers is evident.  This is the next stage of your preaching ministry.  The next stage involves your own personal honesty with your own family or partner.  You say you cannot trust but essentially you are projecting the deceit that belies your own character.  Walk through the other door this time and feel the healing, the fresh air and the authority that comes from honesty instead of the feigned sense of authority that comes from doing something secretively and refusing to confess it to your betrothed.  This is hard to do isn't it. Because now you think they will take the upper hand in some power pull but you are the only one playing the power game.  The reason why he feels good is because he is praying for you and he is sincere; also sincere when he realises you are not giving the courtesy he or she affords you in your endeavour as it is. 
See Ms. Scott Peck-The Road Less Travelled at p.96 for more on knowing yourself.
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