You refuse to appreciate relationships when you have them so you idolise them with notions of how everything ought to be and then you call it romance. Romance is not necessarily friendship. "Friendship" cares but does not control. You can't own God's child but you can seek to agree. Every human is God's child and his creation although they may not acknowledge it and thereby disown that innate and inalienable status. To do this, you need to talk. It (friendship) knows you and you can have a romantic friendship with your wife, husband or boyfriend. Regardless of the height, good looks and education of your wife, boyfriend, girlfriend or husband, every relationship can be reduced to the truth and simplicity in 1st Corinthians 13. The simplicity of sincerity may mean that you have to be as genuine in relationship as you tend to be when eating cereal that you respect as being good for you. It is not that you will fail to make mistakes(also called sin). It is expected(1st John 1:9) but you can endeavour to have a sincere and genuine relationship where a mistake is certainly a mistake and not a choice of habitual behaviour. Christmas is almost here so if Santa knows when you are sleeping, God knows not only when you are sleeping but when you are about to get a common cold and forget to get your children a reasonable gift to add to their Galaxy phone collection of accessories. Did you know Samsung helps to design and also supplies 97.7 percent of all Apple components?