There is a man or two out there who wants everyone to know what he went through and might even enter into certain arrangements to ensure that His children know. He may even be a man who blames God for not answering his every prayer in the way he desires it. Did he, as a man, answer his wife's prayers when he could have? The truth is that God is not a genie but a Father who is personally invested in conforming you into the image of His son; the servant Jesus. Jesus exists as an example of someone who enjoyed life, who served in life and who denied Himself in life and in that, He is life perfectly. As Paul said, "...to live is Christ. To die is again." Impatience or an unwillingness to accept God's answer as provided for the purpose of character molding and conforming one into Christ and His image is a doorway to serve the enemy of your soul. Christ does not want everyone to know what He went through in the negative sense but to only know the wisdom. Only those who do not love want others to know their pain in terms of experience and would ask a whole city, if they could, to help them share their pain in life experience (letting people know via abuse what they went through) with others. Those who love usually communicate the wisdom of their experiences and desire that their children will realize their God-given potential. Those who love have died to their own sense of prideful identity and ego in this life.