The abused usually becomes an abuser if not for forgiveness. This is an old story. But, you need to forgive as you wish to be forgiven. If not, you are saying with every one of your actions to seek recompense for your pain, that your abuser was right. Do you know who abused him or her? The truth is that some people attempt to find someone who they can use as a punching bag upon which they can release all of their anger and bitterness for what may have happened to them at some intersection of their lives. This is a martyr or Jesus in their life. It could be that their victimiser has already passed on and they want someone who they think is just usable for their unresolved emotions. In the alternative, they could just accept Christ and His suffering on the cross. To use anyone for such suffering as to seek some redress when they do not know you or have not done anything to you is demonic. It is just evil. They might have told you once that you are very influential. But, that is all and they were too young to understand that you have a culture with which he has had very little association. He understands "Happy Days" with Potsie and Richie Cunningham and the Cunningham father but that is it. This is why Jesus said cast all those cares, hurts and burdens on Him because He cares for you.
Read Psalms 101 and see how He cares for you. Don't be afraid. Remember also that there will be times of testing. It says that there are four types of character or results that come from the ministry of the word. Difficulty is not a time for giving up but to show the word as true because it is His promise to you.
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